It's hard, so hard, to walk away from the SCA. I know plenty of SCAdians who have made it clear that they are Not Coming Back who are still all over social media commenting and opining on shit. I had to literally cut myself free of it (and now my husband is getting active again locally, argh). It's not easy, because it was so much a part of your life for so long.
Sounds like that certain ex-protégée was socially calibrated, and you are better off without them. Consider yourself lucky that you are free.
Let them go. Let it go. It's okay to mourn the memory of what was.
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branchandroot
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Date: 2021-07-23 01:43 pm (UTC)It's hard, so hard, to walk away from the SCA. I know plenty of SCAdians who have made it clear that they are Not Coming Back who are still all over social media commenting and opining on shit. I had to literally cut myself free of it (and now my husband is getting active again locally, argh). It's not easy, because it was so much a part of your life for so long.
Sounds like that certain ex-protégée was socially calibrated, and you are better off without them. Consider yourself lucky that you are free.
Let them go. Let it go. It's okay to mourn the memory of what was.