
Our Independence Day was forecast to be totally drenched by (almost a storm) Arthur but the predictions also claimed that the majority of the rain and wind would be past by early afternoon. So we went ahead with our plans.
We had eleven friends and one son over for a cookout & pavilion-raising. Unhappily for me, the night before passed sleepless until morning and I ended up asleep, lulled by the moderate amount of rain hitting the house, until almost 1330... and I'd invited folks to start arriving 'anytime after 1300'! I went from luxuriously sleep-sated to panicked upon seeing our bedside clock. Bossman was already long awake, of course, and he'd elected to let me sleep myself out. He prepped the grill, cleaned the kitty box, and washed dishes before I even shook the sand from my eyes. I had enough time to prepare the fixings for the berry shortcake (strawberries, blackberries, and raspberries, sweetened - with the pulp and juice of one overly-ripe white nectarine added in since the rest was a tad dry) along with whipped crème and pound cake. Then I got the pasta salad made. It was a boxed mix of tri-colored spiral noodles with red pepper bits and Ceasar dressing, to which I added cherry tomatoes, sliced black olives, cucumbers, and minced bacon. It wasn't bad at all. We bought steaks for everyone who showed up since they were there partially as a work party. The owner of the pavilion, Barb (Felicia in the SCA) joined us and wracked her brain trying to remember how she and Donovan used to raise their pavilion. That was the only occasion of stress - lots of 'experts' who had definate opinions about how it should be done and few people with any real idea. But success was achieved and the 13x18' oval pavilion was set up. Along with its absolutely ridiculous ten foot sunshade, which is only 5 feet wide and hardly fitting to be called a 'shade'. What a silly looking thing it is! And it adds far too much space to the final footprint of the pavilion.
Nonetheless, we have a single-dwelling setup for this Pennsic. It is not a design I would choose for us to have. I'd harbored minor thoughts about offering for it rather than buying the single-pole 16x16 we are planning on buying but after seeing it up I abandoned that idea with near violence. For a single couple who sleep in the same bed I'm sure the tent is fine. But for the two of us who sleep on very different surfaces (and his is queen-sized while mine is a twin), the tent is woefully small. We'd planned on dividing it in thirds with his sleeping area at one end, mine at the other, and a 'kitchen and salon' in the area defined by the space between the two ridgepole uprights. That space is a measly 4.5 feet. Granted, it is the full 13 feet wide but it is only six inches wider than our kitchen table and six inches less wide than that silly long sunshade. I haven't brought it up to Bossman but I am sure we are going to be changing our plans about the layout. He has been resistant to any sort of planning discussions so I've decided to think everything out as best I can, draw floor plans for him of each arrangement I can anticipate, and then just present them to him to chew on without expecting any kind of actual discussion. Most likely I will learn what he's decided to use as we are setting up, and he'll be confused as to why I hadn't 'known' what we were going to do.
I don't care. He's coming to Pennsic instead of staying home and that is all I care about. He can be as frustrating as he wants to be so long as I get him there for recharging his batteries and rekindling his spirit.
The steaks went over well, as did the eight (!) hamburgers that one of the guest workers brought. Another brought deviled eggs (I was going to make those but she volunteered... now I have 18 orphaned eggs to turn into egg salad for sandwiches). The berry shortcake did, too, with enough left over for us to enjoy last evening after dinner. And once everyone was sated and the pavilion was stored away again, we retired to the kitchen table for a game of "Five Crowns" until our neighborhood's illegal firework-setting was over. Some folks really spent a lot of money on their fireworks but the lack of proper training in how to use them was apparent.