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2023-11-10 05:38 am

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I've been away from my computer too long. Bullet points:

- Had a dental implant installed on one side of my jaw but freaked slam out from pain when the dentist tried to do the same on the other side. It turned out that the tooth behind the empty spot there had a hairline crack running all the way down one root and settling into a small pool of infected tissue. Which spread itself into the other root and eroded part of the jaw. The tissue, as we found during extraction, was made up of nerve cells. They had to saw the tooth into quarters in order to pull it out. It was a harrowing experience and I am so very grateful that the orthodontist was talented and emotionally supportive. He shot my jaw full of anesthesia about every three minutes. It didn't hide all of the pain - no way - but it helped a lot. Recovery has taken me about three weeks now and I can joke that I came close to becoming an opioid addict thanks to the need for heavy drugs. I couldn't open my mouth more than enough to carefully insert a not-heaping teaspoon into it and gooshy food has been my diet for a couple of months now thanks to the initial insert appointment and the follow-up tooth extraction, bone graft, and new insert placement. But it is done and I am grateful. Also considerably poorer because our dental insurance did as expected and denied the claims for all of the work. So that was a few thousand dollars. Luckily we'd gone into it expecting that so it was planned. Sometime in the new year we will have to deal with the cost of two dental implants but that is after Christmas so I just am not going to think about it. And I have been jonesing for homemade popcorn for weeks.

- The car developed a hiccup whenever the gas peddle was depressed. We took it to a new-to-us shop (Christian Brothers. I understand that it is a chain) and learned that the spark plugs needed to be replaced along with brake pads and fluids, and a bit of this and that needed to be addressed too. They were fantastic with their initial exam of the car and sent us a full write-up complete with photos and suggestions, along with checky-boxes for "do this" or "not now". But still, that was another almost $3000 on the heels of the dental stuff. Our budget was past screaming and into whimpering.

- My spouse agreed that he'd likely never have the oompf to finish redoing the main bathroom so we contracted to get the bare studs covered with wallboard and prepped for painting. Cue another $3000 sliding out of the savings account. And now we're going back to the handyman service to contract for the painting, the installation of the lighted mirror (which we haven't purchased yet) and putting in the sink/vanity. Because getting it done is now "a thing" and we just want it over. I haven't gotten a quote about how much that is going to cost us yet.

- Our mortgage holder (blankity-blank Wells Fargo) refunded our October payment and then started calling me about being overdue on our payment. Yes, that made no sense to me either. It turned out that we didn't owe any more on the mortgage, just on the escrow. The house is actually paid off although until the last of escrow is in their hands they won't release the lien. The amount is more than a monthly payment and it is due now. And by "due" I mean it must be sent to a different office in a different state. So I set up the payment via our bank, over $2000, and sent it to the "right" office, patiently telling the folks who called to nag me twice a day that it was on its way. Yesterday I saw that the cheque had been cashed and I didn't get a phone call. Thank the Gods.
Except, nope, they called my husband at work and lectured him on the proper way to make the payment. Yes, they cashed the cheque but they will not accept it in the manner it was delivered and will be refunding us that amount because the payment has go through a specific electronic format or else must be sent as a cashier's cheque, otherwise the payment is "invalid". I was beyond livid. He slammed out of work early so he could pick me up so we could rush to the bank before closing and get a cashier's cheque made out. The deadline for the payment is next Monday. So we can't wait for the refund without accruing additional late fees and are currently out twice the amount owed. Are you rolling your eyes? I sure as heck was. And to make the whole thing even better, they will not cover December's property tax bill because it is "an advance payment for 2024", so we have to cover that ourselves in two weeks.

I hate Wells Fargo with some white-hot hate. But hey, assuming that the cashier's cheque is accepted, we're done with them. We will own our house outright. And that is one less monthly bill, the biggest one, that we won't have to worry about. I can live with quarterly tax bills and revamping our insurance to write Wells Fargo out of it.

- I'm learning how to make kumihumo cord. Currently only the beginner's braid as I get back into practise but I've got my eye on a book with instructions for different types. My goal is to make medallion cords to give to the Atlantian Royal to use on their award medallions. It feels good to be doing something to help the organization. And it is easing the heartache of losing my ability to embroider. I've also picked up my lucet again so I can make two different types of braids. The lucet is easier to use while sitting back in my chair.

- After the latest social media kerfuffle coming out of Caid, I am even more resistant to staying in the SCA once we move to Las Vegas and live in that kingdom.
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2023-08-27 12:18 am

I Bet You Were Curious

I bet you were wondering how it went at Pennsic with my boss (Deputy Mayor). Well! We got there the Tuesday before landgrab and set up our tent, then went down to dinner and to see the crew already on site. The Mayor pulled up a seat next to me to greet me and so I thought, "what the heck, might as well", and told him that I had formulated a plan for my booth - that if I caught my boss berating anyone or belittling them, I'd put a stop to it right there, talk to her privately, and if it happened again I'd be kicking her out of the Troll Booth, so this was a warning that he might get a radio call once the event opened up. He asked me to let him know if I did such a thing, which of course I agreed to, but warned that if I had to take action right then in front of a volunteer to let them know that they were being backed up, I would do so. And I explained what the current definition of a bully was, and how my DM exemplified the title. And that I would not tolerate it towards me or any member of my staff. He looked solemn, said, "Fair enough" and wandered off to greet/meet other members of the staff.

On land grab day my DM could not be any nicer, more tentative in her behavior, or bend over backwards any further. She asked permission to enter the Troll Booth. She asked if I minded if she worked at the head of the line as a Greeter, and "of course I could tell her to move on if things got too hectic." I had torqued my back on Tuesday night walking to the portojohn (And fell in the soaking grass and had to crawl across that in my nightgown to reach a trailer so I could use its hitch to pull myself up off the ground. I was a sobby baby there for a little while. And why couldn't I have fallen after I had taken care of business? Huh? What is with that?) She gave me a ride to the booth and my camp every day; pleasant, cheerful, supportive. I swear to gawd, I was sure there was a pod buried somewhere on the grounds, but no - it turned out that the Mayor, and then separately her Peer, both had a talk with her about attitude and the handling of volunteers. She couldn't have been a better Deputy Mayor this year. For me anyway. I heard from other departments that things were not going so well there. There were complaints to the upcoming Mayor and some other staff members. The upshot was that she was informed that while she could be on staff next year, it would not be in any job that had her in charge of any volunteer. They offered her a brand-new position and I swear, I was jealous. It isn't a done deal yet so I can't say what the job is, but I would jump on it in a heartbeat and so would Arni. It is so very needed. (Budgetary negotiations may preclude the job but we'll see. I do think it is a necessary thing given how big Pennsic has become.) *

Our camping situation sucked. We did not get asked to move the tent to a different spot/orientation this year as we had in the past. I appreciated that and think it might have been due to everyone's awareness that we're only going to be in that spot until next year and then it will open up. But unloading the truck and setting up the tent nearly laid out Bossman and we were both miserable and exhausted by Tuesday evening. The back was loaded differently than we'd tried in the past and a solid wall of wooden furniture fell on Bossman's outstretched arms - it cut one forearm up pretty badly along with that hand but luckily nothing was actually broken. He had bruises and contusions the whole event and all the way home though. Tree, my DM for next year, scolded me about us struggling so much and instructed me to call for him and "a crew" to come help us set up next year. I tried to demur but he pointed out that there was a staff member who expected their tent to be set up for them every year "for the last decade" and that "they certainly didn't actually need the help, while you guys do - and you work twice as hard as they do, so you will call me when you drive on site and wait for us to get there to help you unload and set up."

Alrighty then! To tell the truth, I am relieved. We were so tired and woebegone that it was almost five days before we finally got the interior of the tent arranged. We just couldn't bring ourselves to care enough to move out of our chairs and we hit our beds every night at dusk, just about. We were too tired to cook dinner. We pretty much lived on sandwiches and meals bought from the food court. Pack out was a slog and fraught with an explosive temper on Bossman's behalf. I thought the person who was helping him was going to walk out - and they would have had every right to do so. They quietly suggested that I try to hire a few more people to help pack up, and that we consider changing what we bring in order to make it easier for us to pack up. I agreed, and asked for suggestions. The upshot is that we are trimming down what we bring, substituting modern lightweight replacements for our period wooden furniture and we got a contract to sell the pavilion to a camp member after the War is over. It won't go back into our truck, he'll take it home with him after tear down. It is a bittersweet thing.

And I threw away, in disgust, the brand-new Igloo cooler that I had newly purchased for Pennsic. Dratted Piece of Shi--- Garbage! It was supposed to be a four-day cooler but it went through 30lbs of ice in half a day, the piece of trash. We bled out money for ice at an alarming rate. I was so angry that on the way home, while we were in the hills of Pennsylvania and only got spotty cell reception, I went on Amazon and bought an electric cooler! A friend recommended the one their camp used by way of a solar charge, said that it drew very little electricity and worked like a champ. So I bought one. I kind of regret that I bought the size that I did. I think I should have opted for the slightly larger one, but it's done now and we've already tested it here at home. I haven't tested it in hot weather conditions yet though. I should do that while the heat is still high.

* I just remembered this. I had a meeting with my staff before we did training and I told them how much I appreciated them coming in, burning more of their vacation time just to work like crazy people, and then told them that I respected them, they were all adults who were in control of their lives, and if anyone should attempt to get in their face or insult them, they had every right to respond to that any way they would normally and I would back them up. Assuming they didn't get physical, that is. "Throwing a punch is Right Out." That got a laugh and I saw a lot of shoulders relax. And then someone said, "We all know who she is talking about, don't we?" and the whole crowd, just about, laughed. It was funny but also so very sad.

I had a great team. I'm inviting all of them to come back next year and all of them said they would, barring real life problems.
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2023-07-21 12:14 am

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Pennsic prep has consumed my last couple of weeks, especially in the online aspect. Previously when I had the job I only had to deal with emails and the occasional phone call. I had no idea that with the advent of social media every day was going to start with a conversation about the Pennsic Troll Booth even before I was out of bed and be garnished with more conversations throughout the day and into the after-midnight hours. I like helping those who have concerns. It feels good. I dislike dealing with my Pennsic boss and now have a mental litany, "three more weeks, just three more weeks and then you never have to deal with her again." A friend asked me about what I was struggling with regarding the woman and I gave a short explanation, and, trying to be compassionate and understanding, said, "She is an insecure needy person who doesn't value herself and can only remedy that by trying to make other people "less" than herself. She has no clue that her behaviour underlines the reasons other people do not respect her." To which my friend replied, "She's a bully." and that hit me between the eyes. She is exactly that and in trying to just deal with her effectively for my job, I never put the profile together. Bossman had said something like that last year when she insulted him in front of others but it hadn't registered when he was telling me about it. So I don't know if this is a passive-aggressive move or not, but I am printing up a few cards with this on them:

"Bullying is an ongoing and deliberate misuse of power in relationships
through repeated verbal, physical and/or social behaviour that intends
to cause physical, social and/or psychological harm. It can involve an
individual or a group misusing their power, or perceived power, over
one or more persons who feel unable to stop it from happening."
- National Centre Against Bullying

Because I know her nasty side will rise in the middle of the stressful Land Grab weekend and she will hurt and insult others while "doing her job" inside the troll booth (read: usurping mine). So I am prepared to monitor her and if I see/hear it happening, to pull her aside, tell her privately that what she is doing will not be tolerated, and give her the card with the definition on it since I know that her very first response would be to tell me that I am wrong and she's not being a bully. This way I can say, "this is what your behaviour presents as" and suggest that she takes a break or something. I'm pretty sure that she'll then try to turn it around by verbally attacking me. And if that scenario doesn't play out, if I can't get her to step aside with me or if she does but then continues the behaviour afterwards, I am going to contact the Mayor and ask him to remove her from my area. I will not allow my volunteers to be abused. Or, by Gawd, myself. The trained SCA mindset of "just work around them" has had me in thrall for too long but I am finally awake. It is too, too easy to "be understanding" or "forbearing" and step around the broken stair rather than calling them on their behaviour.

Weather and air quality has me concerned for the event. Especially weather. I am not acclimatized this year and am physically weaker than I'd been last year. Thank goodness our camp has electricity. We're bringing two or three fans and between that and the fans & shade down at the troll booth I should be okay. I won't be doing a lot of walking or visiting though we're bringing my little folding stool that I can sit on for a break whenever I get winded. Yeah, I probably should bite the bullet and get a powered scooter but good gravy, while they are not too expensive I am obese and need it at a campsite - heavy duty and with big wheels, in other words, and it'd require a trailer to get it to and from our home. I've only got one more Pennsic on my horizon. I can walk it.

I've been sewing when I haven't been dealing with social media or emails. Slowly, oh so slowly. I've made four lined hoods, two tunics, and have applied trim to a tunic I found in my work pile and have never worn. (and oy! Applying flat trim around an already completed tunic - what was I thinking?) I have only two sewing projects left to accomplish before we switch to packing the truck on Saturday. A pair of draw-string linen trous my spouse pulled the strings out of, and making a handful of "cooling bead neckerchiefs". I'm doing the cooling bead job first. While I've never made any before, those will be much less hassle than taking the waistband for the trous apart. They are well made modern pants with a duel-elastic waistband. The drawstrings are anchored in the middle of the back of waistband so I will have to use the seam ripper to access that area and then see if it will be a simple repair or if I will need to redo the entire thing. The anchor straddles the two channels of elastic. And he tells me that he "seems to be missing a lot of his SCA trous". I'm hoping they just got mixed in my mine since they were all the same sizes and colors because it is certainly too late for me to try to make any. He'd borrowed a pair of mine one long-ago event and liked them, and since I bought them in extra-long, they fit his long legs. Over time some shrank and became just mine but during post-event laundry it is easy to get them mixed up with each other's, even though we tagged them to avoid that.

Our struggles with the downed willow tree continue. While the city does pick up yard waste, including tree branches, they are haphazard about it. Today was trash day and none of the piles of carefully cut wood were removed. Then again, our regular trash and recycling wasn't removed either. It makes me want to shake my head. Why does it have to be the last trash day before we go on vacation? And we found a steady line of wood ants climbing our porch pillars when we went out to check the status of the wood piles. It is too late before we leave to get a service call to take care of that so it'll be the first thing I get done once we're home again.

[Update] The cooling beads were a bust. They were very tiny and I thought they'd swell up a lot but they didn't. This is what I get for mail ordering them without getting a referral from a previously happy customer. I just bought the wrong brand, it looks like.
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2023-07-08 11:09 pm

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It was a day for cutting out hood & mantles. Got four hoods cut out and five linings - yeah, that was strange but it is how the fabric worked out. I might save the extra lining to use on something for ourselves. These are to give as bribes to mercenaries at Pennsic. They are getting four full Viking era outfits; trous, leg wraps, tunics, and hoods. I don't know how many of them are in their household or how they are going to divide their take. My job is just to make the hood & mantles. It took me a while to cut them out. I had to keep taking a break so my back would stop hurting. I really should invest in a tall table for cutting out fabric.

We went to Target today where I picked up a strange little lidded basket to take to Pennsic. I was going to include a link to it but they don't have it up online, probably because it is in their shelves by the front door, those ones where they stock ever changing impulse-buying items. It is a good size for sunscreen, Motrin, and Tylenol - the stuff we want handy to grab but is so unsightly in the "salon" section of our "medieval" tent. It will be experimental. Bringing a basket is fraught with risk of angering the man who is not careful with items to be loaded and unloaded from our truck. And who hates, absolutely, baskets with rigid handles so "basket" is a dirty word even without handles.

KFC shares a parking lot with our Target so I went wild and got a chicken pot pie. I like them. I know it is very plebian of me but I am okay with that.

Arni was up and in the front yard almost as soon as the sun started to show. He sorted out all of the loose branches from our downed tree and put them in separate piles so the city's garbage service will pick them up. They have rules about the dimensions of what they will haul away. Then he re-piled what is left of the now-firewood. We both had posted a "curb alert" about it being there and one guy came out and hauled away about half of what had been stacked up but he made a mess as he sorted what he wanted. Arni cleaned that up and added to it by slicing parts of the huge trunk off with his new chainsaw. It is hard to tell by looking at the trunk that he'd sliced any of it except that the wood pile which had been about half a cord is now closer to a full cord. And we still have a piece of trunk wood about five feet long and a solid three feet in diameter. He managed to get the last edge of it away from the stump sticking out of the ground - there isn't much sticking up, honestly. It seems to have sheared off very close to the ground. I anticipate that more trunk "shaving" will happen over the next few days.
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2023-07-06 08:32 am

Hot, Hot, Hot

I'm typing this while it isn't taken care of yet, but the HVAC repair guy tells me that the capacitor on our unit failed and that is why our house has had bad air delivery since Christmas. Once the temps dropped below 40f the heating unit didn't raise the temp in the house above 65f. No matter what we set the thermostat at, it stayed low. We ended up buying a new thermostat, twice, and that wasn't addressing the problem - not that we knew that because by the second thermostat the outside temperature had risen high enough that the air conditions in the house were back to comfortable. But then the heat hit here last week and suddenly our house was at 85/86f during the sunny part of the day. This time I specified that I wanted a senior technician. He came out, heard my story, and diagnosed the problem right off the bat. Unfortunately it is about as expensive to address as adding new tires to our trunk. Which we just did and now there is even less money for us to think about spending at Pennsic. Can't call it "being nickled and dimed to death" when the "dime" is in the multiple hundreds.

I didn't do a darned thing with my sewing pile yesterday. It was too hot in the house to think about moving much. We didn't even cook dinner, just ate out of the fridge. But I got a lot done for my Pennsic job. My desk is just below two air vents so what minimal cooling was going on was doubled in that spot. I got a lot of computer work done! After the repairman leaves I will start cutting out the four hoods and their linings. I need to check my trim stash and see if there is anything that would go well on the hoods. I'm trying to de-stash trim so right now I have a box with "stuff that insults the authenticity lover in me" mixed with "woven stuff that is too, too nice to use on just any old thing". I have hopes that between them I can find something to edge the hoods with and lower my stash level a bit.

I have a request in with our lawn service to get the big tree trunk chopped up and its stump ground down. Haven't heard from them yet but I did hear from someone who wants to pick up the pile of wood (roughly half of a cord) so they can use it for firewood. That'll take a worry off of my mind.
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2023-07-04 02:16 pm

There it goes

Yesterday while we were out getting supplies for today's barbeque this happened. https://www.facebook.com/photo?fbid=10161320288834283&set=pcb.10161320288869283 . Pretty amazing, huh? The trunk was nothing but sawdust inside. It'd been rotting for a very long time, it looks like.

We had one neighbor come over last night with his extension trimmer, which had a cute little chainsaw at the end of it. Arni headed out and bought a larger chainsaw from Harbor Freight and was up early this morning to work on it - a neighbor across the street saw him on the front porch as he was drinking his coffee and planning his attack on the tree and she hustled her husband and their neighbor into coming over with their chainsaws, trimmers, and water bottles. So starting with the first picture of the tree, you can scroll through and see the crew and how things look now. https://www.facebook.com/photo?fbid=10161321974034283&set=pcb.10161321974374283

We still have to deal with the giant trunk from the bottom of the tree. That is going to take a 20" chainsaw, some axes, and a splitter. Luckily we can rent most of that from a local Big Box Hardware store.

Doing the work in 93f/34c temps is rough. It is going to take more than one day to deal with what is still there. We are in the orange range of the wet bulb humidity scale. Our heat index has us at 102f/39c.
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2023-07-03 07:55 am

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I watched the Netflix documentary on Cleopatra last night. I don't regret it but it makes me sad. I wonder if people think that if they shout something often enough and loud enough it will make it fact. I managed to sit through about half of it and then skipped to the ending. I wanted to see how they handled that. The answer was "More wishful thinking".

Oh well. Now I know what the hoopla was all about.

This is not to say that having a person portray a historical person who was not of that race is a bad thing. Making me feel that you are that person even when I know that you can't be - now that is acting. And the actor in this show did a fine job of it.



In other news, I (reluctantly) bought a pack of N-95 face masks to pack for Pennsic because of the Canadian forest fire smoke. Three weeks of camping while working there every day means I don't really get to hide somewhere with filtered air so this constitutes "insurance". May the fires subside soon. I can't even imagine the damage that has already happened up there. News in our area doesn't cover it, just the local air quality. I can't envision how dire it is, has been.

Also in other news, I'm making beef eggs for the Fourth of July barbeque we're hosting. I haven't done that in probably a decade but when I mentioned it during card playing last night one of the players, in a small wistful voice, said he missed my beef eggs. My spouse said he'd rather have egg salad for sandwiches. My spouse loses. Unless I hit the grocery store later today. We'll be setting up our pavilion for shade for the "picnic", so it'll be aired out and examined before the Pennsic Packing Panic. The only thing is that I am going to break my hubby's heart by telling him it has to come right back down because our lawn service is due the next day. (Not to mention leaving it up after dark, when fireworks will be erupting in our neighborhood, would be a bad idea.
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2023-07-01 06:16 am

Ruined

I ruined a tunic that I loved. I'd been embroidering on it, outlining a design around the neckline, and in the course of that became aware that I was not going to be able to embroider it fully as I had planned. The tendonitis won't allow it. So I decided to fill in the design using permanent ink on the inside of it. The first ink I used turned out to be water based and splotched all over everything in the wash. Got that mess cleaned up and went shopping for a better pen. Found one (I thought), filled in the design*, and tossed the tunic in the dryer to heat-set it. Then put it in the wash. The ink ran. It danced with wild abandon all over the creamy echru of the tunic. It spread out and made itself at home all around the neckline. It was everywhere. For the last couple of days I've been using various methods to try to remove the stains but none have been successful. It won't stay where I want it, and won't leave where I don't want it. So at some point I shall either have to toss the tunic in the dryer so I can reclaim the trim or just chuck the whole thing in the trash. I'll probably opt for saving the trim but that may not be done until after Pennsic.


*You spotted my error, didn't you? Always, always spot test dye or ink. I wasn't thinking.
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2023-06-29 02:06 am
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I've been sewing. Got two white under tunics done and the staining on a long-loved tunic complete. I'm staining the inside of knotwork designs around the neck which are outlined with stem stitch. The staining is just permanent ink and will make the area appear to be appliqued. The embroidery acts as a dam to keep the ink from spreading beyond its field. Later I will thicken the outline with another row of stem stitch and add embroidered diamonds inside on the stained area, to mimic the pattern of the trim on the sleeves. At some point I'll post a picture of the thing. Wait. I've got a work in progress photo, if this works https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=10161301277399283&set=a.10150327748139283¬if_id=1687724238418038¬if_t=feedback_reaction_generic&ref=notif . I decided to fill in all of the knotwork medallions rather than every-other-one, just in case I couldn't find matching ink later on. So there was a lot more ink therapy going on this afternoon. Right now the tunic is heat setting in the dryer.

I just learned that I am supposed to be sewing four hoods for our household to use as payment to mercenaries we hired for the Pennsic War. I thought I was sewing two tunics but the person in charge changed things up and didn't tell me, so off to the store I went, credit card in hand. Oy! There was no wool to be had. I found only one bolt of linen in the whole place, and it was black. Everything else was "linen look" or a mix of 80% viscose and 20% linen. In other words, crap. But crap I will have to work with. I promised that they'd be correct-to-period for Viking Norse but the fiber content, ugh. The colors and cut will be right and I will line the things. Our coordinator has been warned that these will be fashion accessories, not working hoods.

I used three Turkish towels to make a peplos to wear to and from the bathhouse. I'm not happy with it at all. I had found a really nice weave that I liked https://www.etsy.com/listing/1178007877/pool-towel-turkish-towel-boho-towel?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=turkish+towel&ref=sr_gallery-1-28&pro=1&sts=1&organic_search_click=1 in blue and ordered two of them. But after a longer wait than I expected, the towels that arrived were not what I ordered. Neither were they as wide as what was described. So I resorted to amazon and ordered a third towel from there. It is the same size as the other towels but a different weave and shade of blue. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07YL1FXDF?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_product_details I'll have it be the front panel and the others the back and sides but it's just sloppy looking. Sloppy. I'm not going to waste anymore money on something I won't be using outside of Pennsic, especially since we have no plans to continue going to the War after next year. But I am disappointed.
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2023-06-29 01:42 am
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Wow, just wow

Remember me posting about the ex-protégée who'd been dissing me in public and insulting me at my house? Well... she has hit a heck of a run of bad luck and I really feel for her. She and her spouse had to move from their apartment to a complex that would enable them to move out whenever it is time to relocate to their new place in the Great Lakes area, whenever the Navy contract comes through. So they moved to their temporary abode and the first thing that they found was mold happily growing in the refrigerator and the dishwasher, and cockroaches and ants wandering the rooms. They called the management. It took two follow-up calls to finally get some of that addressed. A new refrigerator was brought in and the dishwasher was "sterilized". But no exterminator showed up.

Go forward two weeks and she smelled something nasty while in her bed, got up, and found six inches of sewage backed up into their bathtub. It turns out that this is a fairly common problem in this apartment complex. Her description of how it was handled by the maintenance folks was disgusting and the guy left without fully cleaning the sewage from the tub. In the meanwhile, ants reinvaded the kitchen. And a couple of women tried to let themselves into the apartment (and nearly got shot!) without knocking or calling out. It turned out that they were cleaning crew and had thought that they were called to clean an empty unit. B had already scrubbed the life out of the bathtub so she sent them on their way with a flea in their ear about knocking before trying to enter. Another round of calls to the main office leads to an exterminator showing up - who said that this call was the first service request he'd gotten. The office had not bothered with it before that day. But the exterminator was thorough, and she was content with that.

Then this week hit. Their toilet began to leak out of the bottom. It seems that the maintenance folks neglected to use a proper wax seal on it when they installed it after the "renovations" they'd done before B & her spouse moved in. So there is yet another work order in to get the toilet repaired. Which is the only toilet in the apartment. But the maintenance guy won't get there until tomorrow because he's dealing with a sewage back up in a different apartment.

We had torrential rain yesterday and the day before. B woke up because she could hear water dripping. It is coming out of the wall and the frame of her bedroom window. It was also coming out of the wall and window frame in the other bedroom. It was leaking so badly that the caulking and the wall board around the windows started falling out. Both windows will have to be replaced, the openings re-built, and the wallboard replaced. I have no idea where B & her spouse will live while that is being done.

The Luck, she is not smiling at B.
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2023-06-07 10:21 am
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Recently I've been reading a bunch of short story collections based in/on Darkover. I almost shudder to write that as I know what your probable reaction is to that statement. I feel oddly defiant about still liking the stories and was happy to find a selection of free fan-fic anthologies, although I'm not sure if professional writers get to be "fan" writers. After reading those, I felt encouraged to add a few of the main novels into my Nook collection so I could more easily read them when the mood struck. I like the Free Amazons, and the stories about the families of the Seven Domains, and as much as I deplore the ethics of the author and one of her co-writers I can't force myself to discard the fictional world. I am glad that whatever profits come from my recent purchasing (won't be much) will go those who can use the funds to help with healing.

This bout of reading has led me to think, again, about how I feel about artists who may be terrible people but whose art brings joy or wonder to the viewer. I don't think it serves humanity, if you will, to throw out beauty because of its creator. I also don't think it behooves me to give 'praise' in the form of funds to creators whose ethics I know are reprehensible. *cough* Rowling *cough* Card *cough* *cough*

There was a woman I once knew who inspired many of us in the local SCA kingdom to be better than ourselves, to hold to standards higher than we would have, to be more generous and kind than a hard day would merit otherwise. She was so good at that that she was brought into the Order of the Pelican. And then the news hit - she had been defrauding her best friend/roommate of thousands of dollars, and was messed up in federal charges too. She ended up in prison. And all of us who had nearly worshipped the woman were left reeling in shock. Years passed, she served her term, and once free in the world she started making financial restitution to those she had stolen from. Her marriage settled back out, her life started to improve. And in the midst of that she and her husband were both killed in a head-on car crash. I attended their funeral. Not for her, but because I dearly loved him (as did many of us). And came face-to-face with her mother and sister during a time when we were being encouraged to speak about the departed. I couldn't look at those two grieving women and say, "she was a horrible person who crushed many of us once we learned of her deceit." And realised that if I had said that, it wouldn't have been true. Because of her, many of us grew beyond our boundaries. We were better for having known her, for having been influenced by her, even though we ended up learning we'd been betrayed. I know of no one who repudiated the positive changes she had inspired. So I could look at her family, and at our friends, and say, "She only had the strength to be her Higher Self for a portion of her life, and she chose to give us that portion; to inspire, to challenge, and to encourage us. I am grateful that she gave us that gift."

So in the same vein, I read my Darkover novels and try to not dwell on what I know about the author. There are a few that I can't really read any longer because of their sexual content but the rest are still havens of respite for me. So, too, many Heinlein novels, and a few other works by authors I've learned too much about to honor any longer. Maybe them being dead influences my views about their work.
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2023-06-05 04:01 am
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Under the Bridge (All about Pennsic Troll)

I just caught up on about two weeks of reading... boy, I've been off about being on my computer. I did manage to re-write the text for the Pennsic Troll webpage and submit it. Three, no four, times. Currently there is an updated version online but it is version two or three, not the final one that had been long-distance edited by my Pennsic boss. and I think lost in her inbox.

We attended the staff meeting at Cooper's Lake during Aethelmark War Practice. As usual, it was cold and raining. I am so glad we opted to stay in a hotel this time. Yeah, it cost more than camping would have, but not having to deal with midnight potty runs in the rain made it worth it. I was able to confirm that my Pennsic Boss (PB from now on) was, in fact, lying to me about this and that concerning my department and her interaction with it, but I was able to assure the Mayor that it wouldn't be a problem - I pretty much know what sparks the warping of his words or any decisions by my boss and I can work around it. And already my eyes are starting to focus on next year's war when she won't be in charge of our section of staff.

A friend is 3-D printing a humongous five-part cylinder to mount somewhere in the Troll Booth. He's made it in dark blue and green; two of the rotating sections are green and three are blue. We will use this to keep count of how many people have registered each day. It can't be connected to our computers to do it automatically but that is okay. And man, those wheels are big! Probably ten inches in diameter. That takes a lot of filament, which he is donating. My budget swings more towards the dry erase board category. He's filling the numbers on each wheel with white epoxy so they show up well against the base colors. I don't know how, or where, this is going to be mounted but I am pleased about being able to return to providing a running count for interested passersby. We are also getting one of those weird posters with a figure whose face is cut out so a human can stand behind and put their own face in the hole for a photo. It is a corny idea (it was my corny idea) but I think it will make people laugh. Even though we're moving away from the job title of "Troll", the figure is going to be one of these https://www.etsy.com/listing/978548581/90s-tnt-troll-doll-vintage-troll-doll . I don't know exactly what it will look like as the person in charge of Pennsic Beautification lit up when I asked about doing it and they took off with the idea. So we'll see. This one will be set up on the volunteer's side, as they are the ones who get to be "trolls". It is possible that there may be other cutout figures posted along the path where our registration line will be so folks can amuse themselves while they wait to check in. Baroness Tysha (the Beautification person) was pretty excited about the idea. She'd made some small ones last year for kids but I think she is excited about coming up with something larger to relieve the boredom of the line-waiting.

I am planning on spending my own money to augment the snacks we offer to our volunteers. Not a crazy amount but I want to bring in a few small comforts. Our budget is woefully small and will not be getting any larger. All too often a Mayor even tries to eliminate it completely. We do get a Keurig coffee machine and those boxes of mixed types of coffee & tea, and we get name-brand sodas (there have been years when we did not!!) but the munchies have been abysmal for the most part. Welch's fruit gummies (those are disgusting), Utz chips, and hard candies. Sometimes a cookie tray of the type often seen in a office training session. It is too hot to lay in any chocolate candies but I'm going to see if I can scout out any decently priced chocolate cookies. I have to have them in their own serving-sized sealed bags as we can't have different fingers reaching into the same container of open food. Could you imagine! Which is a shame because I would have loved to stock one of those big barrels of Red Vine licorices. Maybe I can if I glue a set of tongs on a string along the side of the container. That would be amusing.

The new nomenclature for the department is "Head Tolner" (once Head Troll) -> "Tolners" (shift supervisors) -> "Clerks" (those who man the computers.) In a few years we'll have people inured to saying "Tolner" rather than "Troll". This is a Directive From On High but I got to choose the replacement term and I like using one which existed medievally for "the person who takes money to let you in".

I am bringing appreciation gifts for my Tolners. Just before Covid shut everything down I was slated to be the Autocrat for our Kingdom Arts and Sciences Festival, which was also going to feature the investiture of our new Baron and Baroness. I had enough time to make "big" event tokens so I knit about 200 multicolored bags https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=10158652693439283&set=a.196689984282 , https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=10158452111494283&set=a.196689984282 , https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=10158494862459283&set=a.196689984282 ... they are of acrylic yarn and are sized so a person who drinks Gatoraid could hide their bottle in the bag. Anyway, even after giving a bunch away I still have well over 100 of them, none matching. I'm going to bring the whole shebang with me and offer my Tolners their choice of bag stuffed with an assortment of Kasugai gummy candy. It is so very tasty. And is gluten free and low on carbs too. As a diabetic, I can have four pieces and stay within my snack allowance. The flavors are good enough that four pieces satisfy a person. I love, love, love the Muscat flavored ones. Some of those will be reserved for the Head Tolner. Heh. The rest of the bags will be offered to those whose faces I see often within the pavilion. And if I have any leftover gummies, I will offer those, too. I'd like to avoid loading anyone down with useless stuff to schlep home.

I still haven't started a Standard Operating Procedure book yet. I need to get on that. I also need to talk to Maylene, who is the person on Cooper staff in charge of their side of the booth. She'd be best able to walk me through the computer functions my PB didn't bother to teach me about. I can't really write anything about those from here until I know what all I should know. As it were.

Oh, and today is our 46th wedding anniversary. We aren't doing anything for it - "46" seems a bit lame when we're working towards "50" in just a few years.
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2023-05-01 02:26 pm

Busy few days

Well, if the week started on Saturday, then our week has been very full. First, my Pennsic boss had asked me to write an updated webpage for the Troll Booth but didn't give me a deadline. I got it done and sent off to her ten days later, on Weds. night. She still has stuff she plans on adding to it, which content I don't know. Lo and behold, Friday night the New! Improved! Pennsic Website! was activated and advertised - without the updated troll page because it hadn't been sent on by her to the web minister. So there is no way for attendees to contact me as yet.

In the wee hours of Saturday morning I treated myself to a full-blown panic attack about the SCA event we were planning on attending later that day. It has been years since I've experienced one of those and it took me a while of crying and shaking before I realised what was going on. As you'd expect, I opted to skip the event. I prepped all the food for my husband, so he'd be ready once he woke up but as it happened, he overslept and ended up choosing not to attend either. So we contacted our group of Sunday night card players and announced that we'd all be having a "side board" for dinner. It turned out rather oddly and I don't think we'll try it again. The other players were obviously (perhaps because they are single and usually depend on me or others to provide them) unused to thinking about what is served at event sideboards so the dining selections on Sunday were, ah, varied. One guy brought four different kinds of M&Ms. Another brough two trays of store-baked muffins; chocolate and cinnamon. We provided three kinds of cheese, and ham, wild boar summer sausage, and venison sausage, along with rolls, pickles, and olives. We ate until we were full but I think all of us ended up fixing ourselves a "real dinner" later in the night.

On Sunday morning my husband's computer died. Not with the BSoD, but it looks as though he had been allowing automatic updates and it attempted to download and install Windows 11. His operating system cannot handle W-11 so it got stuck while beginning the startup and stalled, too early in the process for him to be able to activate "safe mode". It just tries to start and then cycles for a bit before shutting itself back down to attempt starting all over again. My man was very frustrated and worried about it. He hates when there is a computer problem he can't identify or repair. My guess is we'll be buying him a new computer a bit earlier than we had planned on, which suggestion put him in an even more foul mood. So we left the house with him feeling angry and went to use our truck to make a run out to buy a twin sized bed from a seller on Facebook Marketplace, for me to use at Pennsic. When we started the truck it made a godawful noise as if it was channeling its inner clown jalopy. Arni knew immediately what had happened and climbed down to check under the rear of the truck. Yep, our catalytic converter had been stolen, the exhaust pipe sawn through. The police and our insurance company have been contacted and both have given us the reports we need. Thankfully we'll only have to pay a little over our deductible for the repairs. It seems that since the new converter is an improvement on the old one, we have to pay an additional 10% to reflect the upgrade but that only works out to $60, which isn't too bad. Nonetheless my spouse is not going to be happy to learn that. And our truck is so old that Ford no longer makes converters to fit it but happily the insurance inspector was able to source a replacement for us to order and have delivered to the repair shop. She'll be including the contact information in her report.

And then while we were playing cards a thunderstorm hit, generated a tornado, and wiped out about 50-100 houses just a few miles from us in town. The northeast corner of Virginia Beach is currently off limits while rescue efforts are underway. This town is built on land reclaimed from a swamp and tidal delta so that area is riddled with one lane roads crisscrossing with canals leading to the ocean or Chesapeake Bay. Many of the roads are without outlets so if one end is destroyed there is no getting to the rest of the street. And on top of that, it is where most of our marinas and boat storage facilities are. Private boats make such impressive missiles during a tornado. Some of which will have had people living in them. The city was hosting a weekend music festival so that area was jammed with visitors in addition to the residents. So for now we have no idea what the damage level may be. But so far there has been no reported deaths.

So how was your weekend?
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2023-04-27 11:05 pm
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We're going to a small local event on Saturday. Something happened and the event has been suddenly modified so we can only use the site until 6:00. I bet the head cook is going nuts. I think I remember that at least one dish was planned to be a long slow-cooking one so now it's going to be a choice between precooking (and deciding how long and how much) or creating a different dish. It's nothing that the cook can't handle but I feel for them having this hit at the last minute. I am thinking about bringing my never-used-yet cribbage board with me to see if I can lure anyone into a game or two. It is this one and I think it is very pretty. https://www.amazon.com/Palm-Royal-Handicrafts-Cribbage-Availabe/dp/B093QGGJH9/ref=sr_1_11?crid=1I33LGINPQSI6&keywords=round+cribbage+boards+wooden&qid=1682652732&sprefix=round+cribbage%2Cspecialty-aps%2C104&sr=8-11 I have my embroidery to bring, of course, but I can't do it for very long anymore and need something else to do during the rest of the event. We're not staying for feast so it is going to be a short day but I am okay with that. The temperature is predicted to be in the low 70s (f) with a 16% chance of intermittent showers, which likely means one or two half-hour moments of rain and then we'll be back to partially cloudy skies.

We had planned on just "hanging out". There is no archery going on, so my spouse has nothing to do but help set things up and tear them back down again. This is good, in that if he couldn't be busy at least part of the time he wouldn't want to go. "Just visiting with friends" is not his idea of a fun event. We're planning on bringing our new-ish pop-up and testing out the new walls I bought for it. It didn't come with walls and we need at least one sun & wind break. I'd originally purchased patterned shower curtains to use for that but even though their black patterning on the white cloth is somewhat correct-to-period for woven design, I don't like them. I'd only purchased two, just enough to lap over each other and cover one side of the shelter. During the winter I got a wild hair and bought three red walls (the roof is a pagoda style in red and black, our household colors) so this will give us a chance to try out the walls and see if they work. It isn't easy to find walls for a 12x12 pop-up after the fact. And I know that red walls are not the best choice - a Pennsic mayor once bought a huge black and red pavilion to use in for the motor pool and it was a disaster because of how the sun shining through shaded everything red. It is now used as (I think) the "noisy tent" out near the battlefield, for musicians. Anyway, I'm not too worried about what things will look like in our interior since we'll only be using one wall at a time to shade/shield, and the few times that we put all three of them up it will be because it is raining, when the interior is going to be murky anyway. On those occasions we'll use the two shower curtains as "drapes" for the open side, which should look nice. But first to make sure that the walls actually can attach to and fit the sides. It is going to suck if we get there and find out that the walls don't work on a drippy day!

Weather and pollen have combined to make me grumpy and sore for a while now. But I had a fabulous day yesterday after sleeping for 13 hours (!) and waking up at a normal time for those who live day-focused lives. I got so much done! Went to bed all chipper and happy planning more to do today after I'd wake up, then struggled to get to sleep and finally succeeded sometime after 3am. Urg. My glucose monitor's alarm did not wake me up so far as I can remember but I did wake up a few hours later at a dangerously low level. It read 41. It doesn't register lower than that so I don't know how low my count was. Drank apple juice and ate a package of peanut-butter crackers (nasty. I must have bought the wrong brand) and things improved so I went back to sleep. Woke up to my count almost at 300, then it dropped down to stupid-low again, and back up again, without any food or dink involved. It was frustrating and the aches in my body tell me that it wasn't appreciated. I know this is a common complaint for diabetics so I also know there isn't an easy solution for the yoyoing. It seems to rely on too many vague variables. You just have to treat as you can and carry on. Channel your Inner Brit, I guess. In the meanwhile, today has been a washout.

Tomorrow I have errands to run. I "killed" the chip on my bank card and will have to go in to get a new one. I hate the hassle of switching over the new specs on my card for each account I have at stores and apps but it beats the alternative. Later in the evening I plan on sewing and baking, which I'd meant to do today. Nothing is dire though so I won't be stressing about missing getting any of it done.
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2023-04-19 03:13 am
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B the ex-protégée

Oh... and this happened.

When we hosted guests to play cards, as we do each Sunday evening (pretty much), the woman who'd once been my protégée (remember me mentioning her?) joined us. We had made plans to try out the new ham & potato soup for dinner. When it was time to eat, she said she'd been wanting to use the new feast gear she'd bought for herself and since she wasn't going to be attending any events soon so she'd brought it with her to use here. She pulled out a plate and a bowl. When I handed her our silverware and a napkin for her setting, she closely examined the spoon and then took a cloth out of her travel bag and wiped it down with the cloth before placing it by her dining ware. I admit, I was so taken aback that I said, "I'm sorry that my dishes are not clean enough for you" and she just shrugged her shoulders then replied that that wasn't why she'd "polished" the new flatware and turned to start talking to someone else in the room.

After our guests had gone my normally easy-going man asked what I thought about that. I told him I'd felt insulted - and he said he'd felt the same way. I'm not really sure what to do about it, if anything. Not about this particular episode per se, but about the frequent small slights she's begun displaying towards me and mine. They are so small that while they form a pattern, it'd be easy for her to blow off anything I'd say about it as me being "too touchy" or "wanting to put her in the wrong".
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2023-04-19 02:38 am
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We waited until the last minute to file our taxes. I always dread it because we always seem to owe a couple of thousand dollars. We didn't! We're getting a refund! I have no idea how that worked out, even when the tax preparer explained all of it to us. What a relief.

We went next to an old farmhouse in our area that has been converted to a micro-brewery and small event venue. I had promised to buy a particular can of beer packaged in a one-of-a-kind label for the 2023 Norfolk Tattoo. It's for a friend who lives in another country. The brewery had had a contest to design the label and he'd taken part in it. He didn't win but he wants a couple of cans to display on a shelf behind his home "bar". Our timing was unfortunate. The organisers of the Tattoo beat us to the brewery and took off with all of the cans. The only way to get any would be to attend the event - and I am not such a fan of pipes and drums that I'm willing to pay fifty dollars just to buy a can of beer. But the day manager at the brewery recruited the barman to join her in the brew house and lo and behold, they found a four-pack that had been hidden behind the main dock. So now I can give our friend his beer. After I figure out how to ship it to Australia. I think I may have to hold on to it until Pennsic 51 (2024) and hand it off in person.

I tried another youtube recipe and it turned out great. It was for slow-cooker potato & ham soup. The recipe made enough to feed five people and still have enough left over for tomorrow's dinner. It is a little lighter on potatoes than we'd like but it sure didn't look like it would be when we were loading up the slow cooker. My only regret was that I thought 1 tsp. of salt was insufficient so added more. I'd forgotten that ham is salt-cured and that it was going to leech into the soup. Wowsers, was it salty. Not so much that we couldn't eat it, but enough that I made a note on my recipe to warn against that mistake again. And friends on Facebook wanted the recipe - one made some for her and her man yesterday and they both liked the ease and the flavor of their dish. That brightened my day. Oh wait - that friend is a Dreamwidth buddy! Hi Dru!

I am on my computer right now to hide from the three-foot-tall stack of paper I took off of my desk and plopped onto the kitchen table. I have got to sort it. But I am procrastinating..
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2023-04-11 01:27 am
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Huh

I purchased two books about Mongolian clothing and while most of the information is about post-1600 wardrobes there is enough to make it worth the bucks I spent. I used all of my Giftmas money on one of them.

I learned something surprising. Mongols made their clothing from wool, woven or felted, silk, cotton, and leather. No linen. Not a single linen item was cited in either compilation of studies. How is that for weird? All of their woven fabrics were from outside of their tribes - they only made felted clothing or tanned leather. Fabric weaving was not a known art.
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2023-04-10 05:39 am

Food fail

When I can't sleep I cruise YouTube on my phone* and one of the things that have been popping up on the random list has been cooking videos. Usually with a musical soundtrack and translated ingredient notes. One that was in English caught my eye and I thought I'd try it. I was a bit dubious about it but hey, it might end up tasting surprisingly good. All one had to do was buy a tube of Pillsbury cinnamon roll dough and a can of apple pie filling. You put each roll in a muffin tin and stretch it up and out to form a dish, then spoon in a dollop of apple pie filling. Bake and add the cinnamon roll topping (or not) before serving.

They were vile. I should have expected them to be but I've been surprised before by something I've doubted. Nope. Horrid. I was thinking of breaking up the things into pieces and throwing them out onto the lawn for the spawning wild life but my spouse saved the squirrels, bunnies, and ducks by pouring the plate into a plastic bag which he immediately threw into the outside trash can. That is how bad they were.


*Okay, when I can't read further or play any more stupid solitaire games on my phone.
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2023-04-10 04:16 am
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Empty Shelf - for now

Domestic Stuff

On Friday I took all of the empty plastic food storage containers out of every cupboard and stacked them on the table, then separated them all and put their lids on them. I was surprised to learn that one of our most-used-size of container had no lid. When did that happen? I guess we never noticed because there were three that used the same sized covers. So it, and a spare lid that belongs to nothing I could identify, went in the trash. I took pictures of the Tupperware - so much Tupperware - and posted them up on Facebook to ask for pricing advice from my friends. https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=10161111123829283&set=a.10150327748139283 One of the advice givers contacted me privately to ask about the squared ones, so three large containers are going north to her via the SCA delivery system. We'll take them to an event next month and give them to a mutual friend who will carry them to the area where the recipient resides. She wanted me to mail them to her and offered to pay for the cost, but if you followed the photo link, that would be the three square shaped containers (two don't have lids), which are huge. Shipping costs for those would be outrageous. Probably $50 or so simply because of the size. So SCA Mule Train takes the load. A set of our card playing friends who are male roommates got chivvied into taking the rest of the Tupperware. Whatever they find that they don't need, they will give to a woman with a growing family who will likely find a use for them.

Then there were the non-Tupperware containers. https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=10161114810884283&set=pcb.10161114810944283 Those are going to a member of our local barony, again by SCA Mule Train. One of the roommates is going to the local Baronial business meeting this week and will deliver them to the new owner.

I didn't charge anyone for any of it after all. I'm just glad to have it out of our house. I kept one large nesting set of nine containers made by Rubbermaid. Unfortunately, the set I gave away had to go because their lids are almost-but-not-quite the same size and color as the Rubbermaid ones and frustrated my spouse to no end when he mixed them up. Now we have one nesting set of various sizes that all have the same blue lids, and another "set" of rectangular red-lidded cold cut containers, and a small selection of the standard take out/delivery containers, which reside in the bread drawer. Because they get taken to work to hold the sandwiches my man makes from the bread in the drawer. Hey, it made sense to me. For now the top shelf in our cupboard is absolutely empty. Tomorrow, though, there will be a set of three Rubbermaid "Brilliance" black-lidded containers living there. It turned out that the smaller set I gave away is the one made of the largest containers, which we use most often for leftover pot roast, pulled pork, homemade soups, and the like. So I'd definitely miss them. But I am feeling virtuous because I didn't toss all of the stuff on the table and replace the whole shebang. I "saved money" because the new three-bowl set wasn't as expensive as starting anew would have been and it covers the one area of need we would have had. So opaque square blue lids, rectangular red lids, and square almost-glass containers with black lids. Hubby should not get any of those confused. Why yes, I am preparing for our old age and probable dotage.

Our new flatware is in its drawer and we're getting used to it. It is considerably heavier than our previous (mixed)set and the forks and soup spoons are longer in the hand. And my! The bowls of the spoons are deeply dished! I bet I could use them as measuring spoons! We like them. The old stuff is donated away to a charity shop.

I haven't risked starting on the mugs. I think what I am going to tackle next is the two not-matching 12-piece sets of water and wine glasses we were given when we married. The water goblets are red with clear stems and the wine glasses are a hideous pattern of clear leaves incised in gilt in a background of frosted glass. Ugh! In fact, the ones on the top of this page https://www.etsy.com/listing/265354576/vintage-libby-gold-leaf-frosted-wine ) We've carted them around for forty-six years, shoving them in the hard to reach back areas of our various kitchen shelves all the while. About once every five years or so we might pull out some wine glasses to share a bottle of wine with our friends. Maybe. We don't really drink much of it. And then back into the cupboard they go. I have to convince my almost-hoarder spouse to let me get rid of them. Honestly, it isn't as if we like them. They were just wedding gifts we've felt obligated to keep, because, you know, wedding gifts. I'll put them in the same bag as the ugly lidded beer stein our eldest gave his dad. Which is stored right next to them.
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2023-04-03 01:33 am
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The last two nights I slept, when I slept, sitting upright in my chair in the living room. Sinuses. Sinuses are evil. On Saturday morning, on top of the face pain and migraine-level headache, my ear canal was so badly clogged that I was weeping from the pain. I could not stand to touch anywhere near the ear or back jaw at all. I would swear that I had a knife stuck into my ear. It came on suddenly, too. My blessed spouse figured out what to do and brought me a hot moist washcloth to hold against my ear, cheek, and nose. That did help. I guess something is actually wrong but I have no idea how any doctor would be convinced that it is important enough to try to find out what it is. I'm accustomed to being blown off when it comes to sinus problems. So for now I'm relying on a regime of Motrin, antihistamines, and decongestants (normally I'd be taking a half dose but full doses for now) along with so much fluid intake that my name should be changed to "Mississippi". I hope that a few days of pill and liquid pushing will encourage whatever is clogged to clear itself out.

Bah! Spring is a pain!

Friday I had an eye exam and ordered new glasses and will be getting them in a few weeks. My prescription is "oh-you-are-so-so-blind", so the glasses have to be made in a lab somewhere in Denver. Trifocals, astigmatism, and the beginning of cataracts make lens grinding a challenge. The cataracts are a new development but do not require surgery yet and he says they may not ever. When I was a kid I was told that I read too much and "you will overstrain your eyes and damage them, and you'll go blind when you get older!" But I'd also been raised believing my medical condition would kill me before age 40 so I was pretty flippant about anything having to do with old age. Why worry about what you'll never see, right? I read by moonlight, under blankets with a flashlight, read constantly every day and night for hours and hours on end, especially when trying to get to the end of a story. I refused to wear my glasses (got teased too much for being a girl with glasses), read books with teeny tiny print, and I remember reading for so long that my eyes couldn't focus anymore and would cross so I'd shut one eye so I could see the letters on the page with no blurring. I also stared directly into the sun more than once or twice. These are all mistakes I guarded our children from now that I am a living example of what not to do.

So the new glasses are comfortable, half-frames, and designed by Armani. Ohhhhh.... that is about as close to haute ton as I shall ever be. The tops have almost exactly the same curve as my eyebrows. I do like that.

The doc checked out the diabetic risks on my eyes - no problems there at all. Those are more frightening to me than the stuff mentioned above. Glaucoma, retinal myopathy, macular degeneration, blindness due to elevated pressure in the eye - those are all risks for a diabetic. Scary, huh?

I'm working on downsizing our possessions some more. The kitchen is going through changes. We bought new flatware and will be donating away all of the mis-matched spoons, forks, and knives we currently are using. Our new set serves 12 people which should last us for the rest of our lives. And we will be losing our huge collection of plastic lidded containers this week and replacing them with a new matched set of nesting ones. Part of the "plastic problem" comes from sandwich making, odd as that sounds. The better tasting sliced meats come in resealable plastic containers, which we save since they are not recyclable. So we try to use them up until they don't seal any longer. They come in two handy sizes, too. But my man LOVES sandwiches. Loves them. I think he averages two meals a day from them. That means that we go through a lot of meat packages over the course of a year. Even holiday giveaways can't really dent our container collection. I'm going to have to take a good look at what is in the deli section to find a more affordable but earth-friendly supply. It is too bad that buying sliced meats directly from the deli is more expensive than we can manage. We have a ton of Tupperware containers. I started buying them in 1977 so you can imagine what I've stockpiled. But I don't really cook like I once did, and don't store the amount of ingredients that I once relied on. I've held on to the containers because they are Tupperware and Tupperware is expensive. I need to let that attitude go and clean the excess out of our shelves.

After flatware, storage containers, and pots & pans to follow will come - - - mugs and cups. I'm not looking forward to that. That is going to hurt and require patience and resolve. How do we collect so many of them? I think we have three cupboard shelves of "regular" mugs, then another of just Arni's travel mugs, and then yet another shelf of SCA-use cups too!